Wisdom for the day – Fr. Alexander Elchaninov

Our modern individualism creates special difficulties in married life.

To overcome them, a conscious effort on both sides is necessary, in order to build up the marriage and make it a “walking in the presence of God.”

(The Church alone provides a full and genuine solution for all problems.)

And there is something further, something which may appear to be simplest thing of all, but which is nevertheless the most difficult to achieve a firm intention to allow each partner to preserve his or her proper place in the marriage for the wife humbly to assume the second place, for the husband to take up the burden and the responsibility of being the head.

If this firm intention and desire are present, God will always help us to follow this difficult path, the path of martyrdom- the chant of the “Holy martyrs” is sung in the course of the bridal procession-but also a way of life that yields the most intense joy.

Fr. Alexander Elchaninov

Wisdom for the day – St Seraphim of Sarov

You cannot be too gentle, too kind.

Shun even to appear harsh in your treatment of each other.

Joy, radiant joy, streams from the face of him who gives and kindles joy in the heart of him who receives.

All condemnation is from the devil.

Never condemn each other.

We condemn others only because we shun knowing ourselves.

When we gaze at our own failings, we see such a swamp that nothing in another can equal it.

That is why we turn away, and make much of the faults of others.

Instead of condemning others, strive to reach inner peace.

Keep silent, refrain from judgment.

This will raise you above the deadly arrows of slander, insult and outrage and will shield your glowing hearts against all evil.

St Seraphim of Sarov

Wisdom for the day – St. Macarius

Believe me, God does not send us temptations beyond our ability to resist,

except perhaps for pride, for conceit, and for complaining,

by which we ourselves aggravate our sorrows.

Be careful not to complain or become faint-hearted.

Magnanimity and patient endurance lighten sorrows,

but faint-heartedness and complaining multiply and exacerbate them.

St. Macarius

Wisdom for the day – Metropolitan Anthony

“The Gospel is a harsh document;

the Gospel is ruthless and specific in what it says;

the Gospel is not meant to be re-worded,

watered down and brought to the level of either our understanding or our taste.

The Gospel is proclaiming something which is beyond us and

which is there to stretch our mind,

to widen our heart beyond the bearable at times,

to recondition all our life,

to give us a world view which is simply the world upside-down

and this we are not keen to accept.”

Metropolitan Anthony (Bloom) of Sourozh

Wisdom for the day – Abbot Tryphon

When we experience the “dark side” of the Church

For those who have experienced what has been called the “dark side” of the Church, the struggle to remain faithful to the Orthodox Faith can seem daunting. The dark side is the result of the sinful, fallen nature of all of us who make up the Body of Christ. It is that part of each of us that is yet to have been transformed, and made whole.

This is especially difficult for pious believers when that dark side rears it’s ugly head through those who serve the Church as her clergy.

But if we see this dark side for what it is, and know that it is not actually coming from the Life of the Church
but from the great Enemy of our souls, we realize that our common fallen nature is vulnerable to the attacks of Satan, who as the enemy of God, attacks those who serve the Church with an especially hardened hatred.

When the Church fails us, be it her clergy, or fellow members of a parish, we can feel especially betrayed, and wonder why we remain at all.

Like all human institutions, the Church can fall short of her calling, and her special vocation as hospital of the soul, can appear no different than any other human institution.

Rather than receiving the needed love, and the resulting healing of the soul, the parishioner may feel as thought they’ve been abused. Parish intrigue can turn the hospital into an insane asylum, and we come away feeling hurt and disrespected. We look at political organizations, busineses, institutions of higher education, and other human based institutions, and see this dark side of the human condition, and we can see that this dark side is really not about the divinely instituted Church, nor her clergy, but about the Evil One.

When we look at our common enemy, we see that this dark side is really not about the Church, but about ourselves, and our own common failure to submit our whole selves, and all our life, into the hands of Our Saviour. It is in this submission to Christ, that healing will take place, and we will be made whole.

That is the point in which we can stop blaming our clergy, or our bishops, and take the blame upon ourselves.

The dark side is coming from within our own fallen nature, and it is we who are in need of acting according to the gospel message. We are the enemy of Christ, and it is our sin that is responsible for the dark side that resides within the life of Christ’s Church.

When we confront our own fallen nature, and blame only ourselves for the debilitating dark side, we usher in the Light of Christ, and all is made whole.

When we’ve done that, we are no longer able to see the sin of others, and we look upon everyone that seems to have failed us, in a new light. We look at them as Christ. Be it Christ crucified, or Christ glorified, we see only Christ. It is then that we emerge out of the long, dark tunnel, having been purified by the action of the Holy Spirit. We are made whole (holy), and the failures of others are no longer noticed by us, and we see only the love of Christ in the faces of our brothers and sisters.

The dark side is transformed, and we are made stronger for having suffered as we did, and we will have experienced the truth in the saying that God allows difficulties, humiliations, and hardships, as the way to draw us closer to Him, and make us stronger.

When this happens, we will know that God is Our Father, and He desires His children to grow in wisdom and strength.

Because of His great love for us, He allows us to experience pain and rejection, knowing it will make us stronger.

Just as an earthly father knows an overprotected child does not grow in wisdom and strength, God, as the good father, changes us into loving, compassionate, and giving persons, and the darkness shall be no more.

With love in Christ,


Abbot Tryphon